So I was listening to radio the other day and they were discussing the Oscar Trial. Then they took a break and started a topic on why women love bad men. I'm actually starting to wonder if the two were meant to be related issues. Hmm.
They brought in a psychologist who gave a blow by blow analysis on why women are attracted to "bad" men. I mean, bad in the sense that these men aren't as well behaved as they should be. Guys that are notorious, infamous, you know. She mentioned how serial killers and other inmates serving time for crimes considered to be the worst on the scale of crimes by the layman are the same inmates receiving love mail from women outside prison. Some women even send nudes. Uh, hello. These are women who are free, that can have and be attracted to any other man, but are in love with a serial something.
She explained that women have the desire to feel control over a man. To feel life they can change him, almost as if they are responsible for him and are obliged to make sure he is reformed, through her works. Uhm. I can't even change my nail colour without being confused, forget an entire Alpha Male. Miss me.
I feel like she's right even though the situations she spoke about took "Good guys finish last" to the extreme. I mean. A woman proposed to a man who had 169 years to go, if memory serves. And yes they did get married. Bra!
Girls I know the bad boy struggle. He's all rough around the edges and you are like a life sized doll so you make the perfect "opposites attract" example. It's attractive because the two of you together give off a medley of personalities quite different from one other. Mmmh. He's bad. He knows it and flaunts it, you hate it and love it. All at the same time.
I'm here to advocate for the good guys. The guys who would stop a moving train and shift the earth off its orbit for you. The guys you deem too nice and well fitting of the friend zone. The guy who's sense of responsibility and security smell like boring to you. Basically, the guy you should say yes to. And man is he waiting.
This guy knows all of you. He has seen the relationships you hop in and out of and still sticks around. His pants don't hang low and his hair is freshly cut all the time. He is neat and tidy and for some reason you think that makes him nerdy. His grades are good (or he has a job he doesn't call "Hustling"), and doing well is important to him. He is well behaved and is not discussed by the masses, but you think that'll make you guys uninteresting as a couple. Have you identified him yet? Cool.
He's a great guy. Great guys are good peoples. They know how to have fun and it's (probably) nice not to worry about someone's drinking problem. Say yes to that lunch offer, the world served on a plate. He won't confuse you and the only reason he wants to know who your ex is, is because he wants to know who broke your heart. The bad boy still hasn't responded to the text you sent two hours ago anyway. Maybe he's out there selling drugs. Or beating up your ex (bad) boyfriend, for fun.
This song is for you:
Treasure- Bruno Mars
Thank me later, good guy.
Ntsa
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