Insecurities

This is the hardest article I've had to write so far. I've tried it from all sorts of angles and approaches and have been typing and deleting like I've got a spasm.

So I first tried it from a me, looking out kind of angle, where I study people and try find out what insecurities they have about themselves. That lasted about fifteen minutes because I that's just how my concentration span lasts, before i start doodling and thinking about what I'm going to have for my next meal.

I then tried it from an outside looking in angle, where I do some introspection and think about my own insecurities. That's when I adjusted my A cup boobs in my bra and told myself nothing was wrong with me.

Nothing is wrong with anyone, really. "Wrong" is relative.

So. Insecurities.

Quick question: What do you like most about yourself? And dislike? Don't read on until you've answered this question.

You didn't answer that question, why are you like this?

Anyway, very few *people will mention a personality trait if you ask them what they like or dislike most about themselves.  People are more likely to mention something physical. In addition to that, people find it easier to answer what they dislike more than what they like.Something along the lines of:

-my pudgy nose
-my knock knees
-my lisp
-my flabby arms
-my scar
-my small this 
-my big that...

The last two... lol.

Anyway. 

Often, the only person who notices those things is you, and the eyes you're viewing them from are exaggerating it.

Insecurities arise from a comparison against something else, how else would you know that you are too thin?  Or fat.  Or tall, or dark? And even if you are, en-den? 

Don't waste your time being insecure because the next person is actually just worried about the current acne break out sprawled across their face coupled with the weight gain around the waist. No I'm not talking about myself. Ok I am.

This was a task and a half. My brain hurts.

Supplement this article with: 

Pink- Don't let me get me

All love, 

Ntsa